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Pearls 101

26 Tuesday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion, Hong Kong

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Today I went to a pearls and diamonds appreciation class organized by the HK Tourist Board as part of their cultural kaleidoscope program. Since it was free and at a jewelry shop, I was skeptical at first that it was a guise for a sales promotion. But I’m happy to report that our instructor, Alex, didn’t try to sell us anything at all. In fact, the lesson was so informational and interesting that I really wanted to get a copy of the slides afterwards for personal reference. Unfortunately, the materials were copyrighted. So I’ll just have to share with you all what I remember.

The first topic we covered was pearls, and here are the highlights:

  • Pearls are made when a piece of rock or sediment gets stuck inside a live oyster/mollusk. The oyster secretion, which happens to by full of calcium carbonate, then creates a layer around this rock called a nacre. And it is this coating of nacre that gives pearls all the pretty properties we love about it. I found this point especially interesting and wondered why I never thought to question how pearls are made and had just assumed that they came out of oysters.
  • Cultured oysters are made when we put a man made sediment (usually made of oyster shells) into an oyster, manually stimulating the layering process. This usually takes 18-24 months. The best thing about it is that the pearl will come out in around the same size and shape as the one you put in. So the bigger and rounder the sediment you put in, the bigger and rounder the pearl will be. So I guess for pearls, size really does not matter too much, since you’re really just buying the coating.
  • There are essentially two kinds of cultured pearls: freshwater pearls and seawater pearls
  • Freshwater pearls: I don’t remember the full story, but the oysters in freshwater can produce more than one pearl (vs just one for seawater), and so are cheaper just by supply. In addition, somehow they cannot put perfectly rounded sediments inside these oysters, and can only put in tissues which change shape. Thus the pearls created in freshwater are typically not as nicely rounded and typically cost less. So when someone tries to sell you an “uniquely shaped” pearl, dont’ pay a premium for it!
  • Seawater Pearls: The oysters here only produce one pearl each, so they’re rarer. They product is also typically perfectly round and can be quite large if need be. Though I think larger pearls are more difficult to cultivate successfully, and thus charge more. A good way to tell that they are seawater pearls, is to roll the strand across the table. Seawater pearls should roll very easily, while it would be a bit more difficult for freshwater pearls due to their irregular shapes
  • Japanese pearls are typically small and no bigger than 10mm (mm is the size pearls are measured in)
  • Black pearls have recently been quite popular due to their novelty. Only Tahiti and the cook islands make black pearls and the most expensive ones are the peacock colored ones, which is a combination of green and red tones. A good way to tell real black pearls from dyed ones (for necklaces at least), is to look at the hole where they poke the string through. There you can see the inside of the pearl, to tell if it’s black or white (which means they’re dyed)
  • The natural color of pearls are usually quite pale and pastel, usually white, cream or pale pink. If the color is deep and sharp, then they’re dyed
  • The most important factor to judge a pearl by is the sheen. The more reflective and sharp the reflection is, the better. The next factors include shape, size and color
  • For necklaces, the pearl size usually differ by around 1 to 2mm from each other, with the bigger ones in the middle. Something about the proportions
  • If you want to tell quality, look at the sides of a pearl necklace, because that’s where they usually put the pearls that are not up to par
  • To differentiate fake pearls from real ones, a) rub the pearls against each other- real pearls have more texture and you’ll feel the friction b) if it’s a necklace, look at the point where they poke the holes. The edges for fake pearls are rougher c) Feel the texture. Fake pearls are much smoother than real ones
  • Since pearls are essentially layers of calcium carbonate, they will not last you forever. But if you take good care of it, it’ll last longer. Here are some tips, a) put it on, 10 minutes after you’ve sprayed perfume. Perfume destroys the sheen b) wipe it down with a wet cloth after you wear it and let it air for 40 minutes. This cleans off the body chemicals that might wear down the pearls c) put it back into a soft bag to protect it

Phew~ that was long. And this is just what I remember! I’m pretty sure I missed out some of the other factors that are used to judge pearls. I should’ve taken notes! Stay tune for later this week for a girl’s best friend!

Life Lessons of the Week

22 Friday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Random Musings

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Completely out of the blue, I found myself in a week of what I like to think of as life coaching lessons. It went over concepts like the importance of skills vs attitude to successs, and soft skills like how to approach different types of people and listening. Besides learning how to make a hole in a raw potato with a straw, which is pretty awesome, the two points that stuck with me are the following:

  1. Great leaders are Great Sales: What is the difference between someone in a supermarket promoting a particular brand of knife, and Obama promoting the healthcare bill to the senate? Essentially, both are trying to persuade someone into their way of thinking, and ‘sell’ you something. The difference is your stance. Obama actually believes that this healthcare bill is good for the people, while the supermarket sales couldn’t care less if you already have a dozen knives at home- they just want to make a commission. The world is made up of those who convince and those who are convinced. So be a good sales with a stance. Herein lies the need to develop good soft people skills.
  2. Luck goes to the ones who try: A fresh graduate found a lead through cold calling to a potential client, and met up with them on a Friday night very far from home. After hearing him out, his client told him she didn’t need it, but might mention him to another friend and told him to call back on Monday. He thinks, is this client just playing with him? He calls them on Monday anyway, and get’s the number to her friend, Sammy. Sammy meets him at his office and after hearing him out, says that doesn’t need it either but may have a friend who does, and arranges an introduction for him.  Worrying about potential referral fee, he goes anyway and, to his amazements, meets the relations of one of the tycoons of the country and exchanged business cards. Through a series of persistance and playing on his strengths, he, a fresh graduate, eventually wins the business of a wealthy and experienced client. How lucky is that? But luck doesn’t just come to those who are lucky. They come to those who reach out for it. There are limited ways for luck to randomly land on your lap when you’re sitting on your butt. If you go out and try to find it, at least there are more opportunities for luck to come in and aid you. It’s all about the probability.

Something to ponder about over the weekend.

A Not So Cliche Cliche

20 Wednesday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Relationships

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Dear Clueless Boyfriends,

In case you’ve not noticed, Valentine’s day is in the horizon again. And so I thought it is time to share an idea I recently heard about from a friend trying to buy his girlfriend something nice for her birthday. Instead of getting her a typical boring heart-shaped Tiffany necklace (yes fellas, you know which one I’m talking about), he got his girlfriend a David Yurman necklace. It is not something fabulously unique or anything, but it definitely made me a little green hearing about it. How on earth did he even know about David Yurman? If I randomly asked a guy on the streets, I’m positive that at least 80% of them will not know what it is. Apparently, he heard about it from his female friends and even went so far as to get one to go with him to pick one out, knowing his own inferiority when it comes to jewelry picking (I know someone who returned a bracelet she recieved for Vday back to the store because it was so ugly). His resourcefulness and thoughtfulness immediately put him up a few notches in my books!

In case you’ve not heard, David Yurman is a jewelry brand name from the US that is a favourite amongst the trendy set, including Kate Moss. Not that there is anything wrong with Tiffany, but that heart does get a little old when you start seeing it on every girl’s neck on the streets. David Yurman’s jewelry on the other hand, is elegant and understated. Your girlfriend will feel special to be amongst this exclusive set. You’ll also be happy to know that it won’t break the bank like anything at Cartier or Van Cleef Arpels will. You can get something very nice for around $300 or above.  Pssst! He’s famous for his cable knit jewelries like the cables below (all are around $350):

You might be thinking that getting her a necklace is still kind of cliche, but there is cliche and then there is cliche. There is the Tiffany heart-shaped necklace cliche, that is almost like buying someone a box of Godiva chocolates because you don’t know what to get them and figured that everyone likes Godiva chocolates. Then there is the David Yurman necklace cliche, that is like buying someone a box of Varlhona chocolates (or whichever suits their taste better). Everyone does like chocolate, but to really hit the mark, it depends on which kind.

I hope this helps!

BG

Random Surge

17 Sunday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Blogging

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According to my Dashboard, there was an unusual surge of traffic to my blog yesterday for no apparent reason. Usually there’s a particular incoming link or a popular google search word, but this time there is no clue. And it’s not just the WordPress Dashboard. The Sitemeter counter also showed a surge. I wonder what it could’ve been. Perhaps an especially aggressive hacking program trying to leave comments?

Speaking of blog traffic, does anyone else notice that the counter for the WordPress Dashboard and Sitemeter differs by a lot? I wonder why that is so.

A Friday Laugh

15 Friday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Finance and News, Random Musings

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Here is a little something that will give everyone a good Friday laugh (provided you were not part of the thousands of people stranded at Newark airport that day). The things people do in the name of love……

Miu Miu Stage Bag

14 Thursday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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I’ve always been a girl who believed in simplicity. But as I held this soft leather bag and the beweled chain in my hands, I couldn’t help but fall in love with it.

The soft pink color, the quilting with the surrounding studds and the jeweled chain all appeals to the young girl in me. In particular, the young girl who loved pink and spent her time dressing up her Barbie dolls and over accessorizing herself with plastic jewelries. This Miu Miu Stage bag combines all our girlhood fantasies into one. It goes against everything we’ve learnt about style and simplicity since then, but somehow the over the top details work together in this case and actually makes it fun. Just think of all the fun you’ll have playing dress up with it at home. It would also be the perfect compliment to a sophiscticated black (or white!) dress, and take you from Valentine’s day all the way to a summer cocktail.

Now I’m not saying that all the Miu Miu Stage bags are to die for. I happened to think that this aquamarine color (above) works too in an elegant sort of way. But the contrast between the jewels and the black leather one just too big for it to be pretty (you can see the full collection here).

The other two styles are also too extreme: one is too simple and the other is too embellished for it to work. One must be careful with these bejeweled chains bordering on tacky.

Image Source: Miu Miu

Rebecca

13 Wednesday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Books

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As per the (repeated) recommendation of one of my family members and because it suited my current mood, I started reading Rebecca by Daphne DuMaurier and finally finished it today after only 3 weeks. This is some sort of a record for me, since these old classics usually take me months. I usually find the painstakingly detailed descriptions of how one places the tea cup terribly tedious and hard to digest. I recall that many years ago, it took me over 4 months to finish Emma by Jane Austen, and another 3 months to complete A Sentimental Education by Gustave Flaubert. And yet, Rebecca was incredibly easy to digest. On some nights I find myself staying up for hours just to read what happens next!

The pace of the book was quick, even though for most of the book nothing really happens. They spend most of the time walking in the garden with the dog and having tea. The highlight of the chapter would be the narrator going up into a dead woman’s room and observing her possessions. Nevertheless, it was incredibly engaging. The writing was also quite clever. I was so engrossed into the narrator’s point of view that I did not see the obvious signs of what was going on until the narrator herself did, even though I am so much more jaded than her. No wonder it was a hit back in the  1938! It is a surprisingly refreshing novel even now. I wonder if it is more relatable to me because it was written more recently than Jane Austen books, and so the language is easier to digest or if it really is the talents of Ms. DuMaurier. And I wonder what happened in the end……….

I’m such a nerd. School is over and here I am dying to discuss the implications of a classic novel, when back in the days, I struggled to come up with something to say in class! Maybe I should join a book club!

Berry Good

09 Saturday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Hong Kong

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My quest for US quality frozen yoghurt continues. Today, I tried Berry Good in Soho. Located on Graham Street, you’ll find it if you walk up Wellington Street (where Yung Kee and Tsui Wah are), pass Cafe Siam and Pizza Express, until you hit Pacific Coffee. Graham Street is located on your right, and you’ll see Berry Good a few stores down. I was really proud when I found it!  

Unlike Yo Mama, with it’s clean and modern decor, Berry Good didn’t have much of a decor. It is simple, with a fridge, a counter and a few chairs and tables. Priced at $30 for a small cup with 1 topping ($5 for extra toppings), it is priced a tiny bit more than Yo Mama. But the taste of the yoghurt was one step closer to Berry Chill, I can taste the Yakult (and indeed, we can even see the Yakult in the fridge)! It is still a bit too milky and sweet though. The texture was also not exactly frozen. I ordered the same toppings as I did at Yo Mama- Strawberries and Mochi- and they were more or less the same. I miss good old chewy fake US mochi’s! Over all though, I’d put Berry Good ahead of Yo Mama. Sadly, Yo Mama is the more prevalent store across Hong Kong.

Next stop, Yoghurtime on Elgin. Anymore suggestions?

Betty and Braces

06 Wednesday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Random Musings

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Ugly Betty

To the Director of Ugly Betty,

I know that looking ugly is the essence of Ugly Betty, and that her braces play a large role in her image since America Ferrera in reality is really not that ugly. But isn’t it about time Betty Saurez get to rid herself of the dreaded braces? You know, just to keep the show ‘real’. Everyone knows that the average duration of a braces treatment is 2 years. Even if she is an especially tough case, after four years, I think she has paid her dues. Was it because of the whole episode with Charlie and Dr. Farkas (her orthodontist), that she’s failed to go back for her monthly adjustments?

Granted Betty carries her braces well, but now that she’s become an assistant editor, has side-sweep bangs and a more subdued wardrobe, maybe it’s time to take her braces off as well. It’ll go well with the whole “new” Betty theme.  Besides, without having to put on and take off the braces all the time, everyone will be able to get off the set earlier and go home! As a devoted viewer, please be assured that we will not think any less of the crew for skipping on the braces. Frankly, I’m only still watching the show because I have an inordinate amount of free time and this show is familiar and is always a good laugh. It never ceases to amaze me how bizarre obstacles keep on popping up in Betty’s path whenever things start looking good. But it’s always comforting to know that Betty will always perservere in the end. It’s like Superman but with better clothes. And the saving the world plot never gets old. If it’s any consolation, Betty will always have her glasses to keep her “ugly.”

I do hope you will take my suggestion into account. Maybe it can be part of the next bizarre obstacle that pops up in Betty’s life. It would be funny to see Betty kiss someone else with braces (not that I don’t love Matt) and get stuck in the process.

Your Devoted Viewer,

BG

Ps. For those interested, the show has just been moved to the less prestigious spot (imo) of Wednesday in favor of College Football. On the bright side, it means that there’ll be an episode tonight!

A Flight to Japan

05 Tuesday Jan 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Beauty, Random Musings

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Update: I’m loving my perm so far. The soft curls are pretty and not over the top. The only problem is that I never know how to style it the next day when I wake up and it’s a mess. I usually just split it into two, spray water on it, twist them outwards and let it dry. Yet the result is still very messy and dull. I wonder if I’m suppose to add some products like hair serum in my morning routine to add some shine.

*****

After much mishaps and reschedulings, I finally made it to my hair stylist yesterday. My shapeless strands badly needed some attention, I’ve been tying it up for weeks now to avoid confronting it!

Having “rested” my hair for more than 1.5 years, I’ve finally convinced myself that my split ends are largely due to the minerals in the Chicago waters and there’s not much I can do about it, no matter how many hair masks I do. So I treated myself to a perm. Ever since I got my first perm the summer before I studied abroad in Paris, I’ve loved my hair curly. My long face just need some curls to widen it out.

This time my hairstylist Roy gave me softer curls that curl outwards instead of inwards. I’m not sure what difference that makes, but I’ll let you know once I’ve washed my hair. I’ve always believed that you can only judge a haircut after you’ve lived with it for a week. So far I’m pretty happy with it, even though I could’ve gone to Japan with the amount of time it took me to get it done! I spent a long time flicking through magazines until they all started to look the same and talking to my hairstylist about his recent trip to the States. I wonder what everyone else does when they have 4 hours to kill at the salon.

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