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Haiti

28 Sunday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Finance and News, Random Musings

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Now that it has been a few months, I daresay that many have already forgotten about Haiti, with its lack of exposure in the media. But it was brought back on my radar this weekend when I heard the most bone chilling story from my friend that left me quite speechless. One of her friends had visited Haiti recently to see for herself what the situation was like there and was surprised to find that there was no signs of major improvements. It seemed that billions of dollars in donations are just floating around somewhere in corruption and inefficiency. She found that the aids were on one side of a barrier, while the people were on the other side just sitting there in desperate need of help.

Curious, she walked over to the other side to talk to the people and ask them why they were not coming over to get aid- they felt that they have nothing left besides the piece of land they’re sitting on, and if they move someone might come and take it. And so they were just sitting there, waiting for help. Then she saw a little boy of 4 or 5 years old just wandering aimlessly around. The boy stopped next to another little boy who had a cracker, and tried to take it away from him. Then suddenly, the boy with the cracker’s mother was there and literally punched the boy unconscious! She immediately asked the mother why she did it, and the mother said, “That boy has no parents to take care of him, he’s already as good as dead. If I had to choose between the survival of a stranger and my own child, I’d choose my own child.” Sadly, who can blame the mother? Many more such children are wandering the streets lost, looking for their parents with no protection, making them incredibly susceptible to human trafficking. Efforts to register and track these children are not proceeding nearly fast enough.

With the hurricane season coming soon, the situation is about to get worse. Where are the tents and supplies donated? Apparently they are in an island not far away, but they just can’t figure out a cost efficient way to transport them over without harming their charity ranking status.

Most people forget about a cause once they’ve donated money, thinking they’ve done their part. But hearing about these inefficiencies really gets one thinking, should we be doing more?

Star Struck

23 Tuesday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Blogging, Hong Kong

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Today I was star struck by none other than Susie Bubble from Style Bubble. I actually stopped in my steps for a moment and just stared at her. Yes, Susie. That girl who was blatantly staring at you today outside Cova in Pacific Place was me. I was tempted to creepily follow you into the bathroom and introduce myself, but alas I thought it would be too stalkerish. I already felt decidedly blah next to you. Me in my hastily thrown on jeans and cardigan, and you in your floral top, edgy fringed pants and heels. Plus, I really didn’t know what to say! Instead, I went to our table and immediately called HG to gush. She was super excited to hear about my sighting too! Somehow it was even more exciting than accidentally stumbling into the Asia Film Awards last night and walking into a random Hong Kong movie star.

Bib Necklaces

19 Friday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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I first noticed bib necklaces a few months ago when I was browsing at my new favourite jewelry store with HG. But then we quickly glanced over it thinking that a) how will we wear it?? and b) even if we figure out how to wear it, where will we wear something so fancy to? It didn’t enter my mind again until recently, when my mom commented on how boring one of my outfits looked, and I was promptly reminded of the power of accessorizing and a statement piece.

Then of course, I saw B wearing a bib necklace this week, and knew that I simply must get one! The bib necklace is so perfect for her outfit that it actually looks part of the dress. And the beauty of the bib necklace is that, unlike a decorated collar of a dress/shirt, you can move it onto a different outfit and get a whole new look from it! The trick is to keep the rest of the outfit simple. By no means do you have to wear all black, but do try to keep the upper body bold and clean. Stay away from prints and details like ruffles.

I’m loving these three from Shopbop. And look, the pictures above even show you three additional ways of wearing a bib necklace: a) with a simple wide neck tee for a casual look b) strapless dress for an evening look and c) with a simply designed flashy top for going out!

As usual, Forever 21 offers cheaper versions in the form of these pearl bib necklaces. The black one (left) would go well for both casual and evening. I’m not sure sure about the white (right) one though. It is a bit too wide and you might look like you are actually wearing a bib.

And I simply had to post these two bib necklaces from Ibrah. I love the vibrant colors and the unique designs. It gives off a bit of a Marni vibe! I found it on the blog of a fellow blog reader from Kuwait, and it has stuck in my mind since. I think it will be a great accessory to spice up a casual tee or a dress. It is a Kuwait label known for its handmade accessories.

I must go back to my jewelry store soon. Hopefully they will have something jeweled, edgy and not black!

Image Source: You Know You Love Me, Shopbop, Ibrah and Forever 21

Alice in Wonderland

17 Wednesday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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alice in wonderland, Fashion

I watched Alice over the weekend and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I thought it was a clever extension of the original tale- especially since I only vaguely remember what happened way back then, which goes really well with Alice’s own hazy memory. It may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but I personally loved the whimsy of it all. It was almost like a fairy tale for grown ups!

Another thing I loved about the movie were Alice’s dresses- and there were loads of it since she kept on shrinking and growing! They were all so pretty, girly and blue (well except for one of them). The blue dress she wore in the first scene (above) was classic Alice.

The second one, supposedly a derivative of her petticoats, was gypsy inspired. I’m not a big fan of the bulk, but the halter top with the sloping shoulders design was intriguing as was the striped print.

The third strapless dress, the one the Mad Hatter made for her, was charming. It was my favourite one. You should’ve seen the cute sandals that went with it! I’d definitely wear this dress!

I must go research some SS10 Alice inspired fashion i.e. light blue with lots of cute girly details for myself!

The Fashion Blogosphere

14 Sunday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Blogging, Fashion

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Many fashion bloggers started their blogs hoping to get discovered and become glamorous overnight. Indeed, Manolo from Manolo’s Shoe blog[1] reputedly earned a six figure annual income from blogging. Susie from Style Bubble[2] got a job within the industry because of her blog, and is now a frequent guest at international fashion events. Jane, a regular Texas girl from Sea of Shoes,[3] was even invited to the annual Crillon Ball in Paris as one of the twenty four debutantes along with the likes of Stanley Ho’s granddaughter and Princess Diana’s niece. Free samples, fashion shows, magazine and newspaper features, maybe even a book deal- it was all within a few clicks of the mouse. The upside in fashion blogging seemed limitless relative to the low cost of entry. But you can’t expect to simply arrive in Hollywood and become a superstar. It takes a bit more to reach stardom. 

In 2004, since the idea of blogging about clothes and accessories was still fairly new, it was relatively easy to establish yourself amongst the handful of fashion blogs out there. Sign up for a free user-friendly blog account, churn out a few blog posts, exchange links with other fashion blogs to make yourself known and you are a fashion blogger. You didn’t need to be in the industry or even be terribly fashionable- that was what magazines were for. You just needed to be interested in fashion, have an opinion and a voice that readers can relate to and consistently publish up-to-date posts. There is nothing more detrimental to a blog than a blogger who disappears for weeks. No matter how much they like your blog, they will not come back to a fickle source.  

Eventually, traditional publications started to take note of this growing community. Published articles, like the New York Times article titled “Online, Feisty Critics[4]” in 2005, helped jump start interest in these blogs and contributed to the rapid growth in the fashion blogosphere. For brand managers, it was a whole new channel for fashion marketing that they fully intended to take advantage of it. Fashion bloggers were flooded with press releases, advertising inquiries, invitations and free sample offers, all vying for a spot on their blog. Towards the summer of 2007, even big international brands that had previously scoffed at fashion blogs started paying attention. Chanel offered to fly select fashion bloggers from around the world over to Paris, for an all expense paid trip to view their collections and tour the private apartments of Coco Chanel, in an effort to promote their brand in this new media.

But if glamorous perks and fame are considered as an abnormal profit, then it cannot be expected to be sustainable in the long term. With the cost of entry into the fashion blogosphere next to nothing, infinite would-be bloggers and the transparent nature of blogs, the only thing differentiating each blog is its unique human capital. As with all such monopolistic competition market structures, eventually abnormal profit will attract more producers to enter, creating competition that will drive down the abnormal profit. And indeed, that was what happened.

Not only were there more independent fashionista’s trying to get a piece of the glamour, but fashion insiders as well. Fashion magazines launched fashion blogs, featuring real editors mimicking the friendly and down to earth tone of bloggers, providing readers with first hand insider news and analysis. Some even adopted this style of writing in their magazines. Fashion brands, especially the lesser known ones, also introduced fashion blogs in an attempt to promote their products. The fashion blogosphere exploded, making it increasingly difficult for new bloggers to differentiate themselves from other blogs and reap abnormal profits.

Established fashion bloggers benefited immensely during the boom. They easily expanded their readership from a few hundred to a few thousand hits per day, through incoming links from magazine and newspaper features, blog networks and newly set up fashion blogs. With popularity came more popularity, as their ranking in search engines also improved. More traffic was organically directed towards them from keyword searches, which is a powerful source of traffic. If you Google search “Fashion Blog” right now, you will find that I am Fashion[5], a blog that stopped updating early 2009, still ranks number five in the search results, despite their inactivity. Newcomers on the other hand, do not have this competitive edge.

The only recourse for new fashion bloggers without the financial backing of large corporations to buy them search engine rankings and publicity, is to find increasingly innovative ways to set themselves apart. It is not enough now to simply have a relatable voice and opinion. You must have a unique selling point. Manolo from the Manolo shoe blog for instance, writes in the third person. His witty yet brutally honest observations makes readers return for more of his distinctive brand of humor. Alternatively, the Sartorialist[6], a man of few words, is selected as one of Time Magazine’s top 100 design influencers. The focus of his blog is photographs of stylish people on the street that caught his eye. His talent for capturing these people at their best, most inspirational moment keeps reader coming back for more. Then there is Jane from Sea of Shoes, a seventeen year old blogger from Texas, who is arguably one of the most successful newcomers coming in towards the end of the boom in 2007. Her unique sense of styling, inspirational home-made photo shoots and charming commentary won her a loyal following. After all, not many teenager girls can make an ancient granny sweater look stylish.

Apart from standing out, new fashion bloggers must also work harder to gain the reader’s trust. Previously, one of the charms of blogs was the way bloggers expressed their opinion, unconstrained by advertisers and sponsors. Now, the commercialization of fashion blogs has put the writer’s integrity into question. It provokes readers to wonder whether a fashion blogger is promoting something because they believe in it, or because they derive some sort of incentive from it. Some fashion bloggers try to use honesty to gain their reader’s trust, telling them in advance whenever a potential conflict of interest is involved. Most leading independent fashion bloggers however, choose to keep their advertising to a minimum, and try to generate revenue from other sources that do not compromise their integrity and the visual of their blogs. The author of The Sartorialist for instance, has only one advertising banner on his site. He generates most of his income through guest blogging for Style.com and a monthly page in GQ. Still some fashion bloggers, like Jane mentioned previously, choose not to advertise at all. Instead, Jane blogs for the pleasure of blogging and enjoys the perks that come along with reaching stardom. But then few bloggers can afford that luxury when maintaining a popular blog is almost a full time job.

With the explosion of the fashion blogosphere, glamorous perks are becoming much rarer. There are simply too many fashion blogs out there for brand managers to effectively identify which one suits their target demographic best. Consequently, firms previously offering free samples, now send out mass electronic press releases instead. Affiliate programs were introduced, where fashion bloggers are paid by commission when a customer directed to the parent site makes a purchase, instead of by the amount of traffic directed. Traffic based advertisements are typically more profitable, because consumers usually do not buy big ticket fashion items online. Companies specializing in blog advertising were also launched trying to bridge the gap between advertisers and fashion blogs. The intermediary fee charged by these companies took yet another bite out of the abnormal profits previously enjoyed by fashion bloggers.

Once the idea took hold, it didn’t take much to foresee the rapid growth of the fashion blogosphere. But like most up and coming industry with low barriers to entry, there was inevitably competition that drove out the weak and forced the survivors to move forward and evolve, even at a lower profit margin. As Warren Buffet recently said in the Berkshire 2009 annual report:

In the past, it required no brilliance for people to foresee the fabulous growth that awaited such industries as autos (in 1910), aircraft (in 1930) and television sets (in 1950). But the future then also included competitive dynamics that would decimate almost all of the companies entering those industries. Even the survivors tended to come away bleeding.

It seems that the fashion blogosphere is no different.

 

* This article is obviously a generalization of the fashion blogosphere and is not a complete representation of all fashion blogs/bloggers. There are also areas of fashion blogging that I have missed out on, simply because it didn’t really flow well with the main theme and lack of time. Hopefully, I’ll touch on those some other time. If you do get through reading this whole article, your thoughts would be appreciated!


[1] Manolo’s Shoe Blog: http://shoeblogs.com/

[2] Style Bubble: http://www.stylebubble.co.uk/

[3] Sea of Shoes: http://seaofshoes.com/

[4] Online, Feisty Critics: http://www.nytimes.com/2005/09/08/fashion/thursdaystyles/08BLOGS.html?_r=1

[5] I am Fashion: http://iamfashion.blogspot.com

[6] The Sartorialist: http://thesartorialist.blogspot.com/

You are the Oscars

11 Thursday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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I’ve had this post in mind since Monday, but then things came up… and here we are.

My favourite of the night was Carey Mulligan. As far as black dresses goes, this black Prada dress is probably one of the smarter ones of late. The tastefully arranged sequins and the cleverly cut hemline, makes an ordinary black gown extraordinary. Carey makes it work for her too. Paired with her blonde pixie haircut, dangly earrings, simple black clutch and ribboned sandals, Carey looks youthful and refreshing, and very appropriately dressed for the Oscars!

Anna Kendrick (left) and Rachel McAdam’s (right) Elie Saab gowns also stood out for me. At first I couldn’t decide whether Anna’s pale pink gown washed her out or made her look pretty in an ethereal way. But after having stared at it for some time, I finally decided on the latter. As for Rachel, I thought that she carried the gown off really well. The print and color could potentially make her look old, but instead she looked pretty and very age appropriate.

Charlize Theron’s Dior Haute Couture gown also caught my eye, except it was for the unfortunate placement of those rose buds on her gown. Not even Charlize Theron can carry that off.

Image Source: Style.com

Business Formal

06 Saturday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion, Office

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I have always believed that the white dress shirt is the magical one for all item in a business wardrobe. If you don’t know what to wear, always fall back on the white dress shirt and a dark suit. Indeed, that was my trusty companion for job interviews for quite a while.

Now I know why I never felt comfortable or confident in it! It makes me look like a waitress or a sales associate. Not exactly the confident young business professional I was trying to channel. After exhaustively mixing and matching my suit with different tops inside, I finally realized that my downfall was my trusty white dress shirt. I instantly looked better after I changed into a dark blue silk dress shirt or a cream silk top with ruffles. I once heard that dressing in something a little different, like a colorful top or a pair of eye catching earrings, even in a business formal occasion, will make you standout from the herd in a positive way. Indeed, I don’t recall anyone in Lipstick Jungle wearing a white dress shirt with a black suit. Maybe a smart white shirt with a pencil skirt and heels, but a white shirt with a full dark suit just marks you as a nervous newbie. So next time you go for business formal, you might want to reconsider your trusty white dress shirt.

Image Source: Bloomingdales

Pretty Gladiators

02 Tuesday Mar 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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I’ve been feeling a little blogged out lately, so I’m going to borrow inspiration from HG and talk about the pretty Marc Jacobs bow shoes that she’s been obsessing over ever since she saw Leighton Meester wear it last year.

I’ve always been a bit skeptical of gladiator sandals, because they look rather skeletal to me. But I must say, I quite like this one. It has the cool skeletal quality that brings gladiators back to us season after season and yet, it is still pretty with the girly bows.

Indeed, Leighton Meester does it credit, showing us how versatile it can be with our summer outfits, from casual shorts to a pretty dress. It works for mere mortals too! HG tried on the 1 inch heel white version the other day and it looked fab on her!

Image Source: Net A Porter and Coolspotters

Prada SS10: The Spring

24 Wednesday Feb 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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Walking down the streets, the latest Prada Menswear SS10 campaign caught my eye and actually made me stop to read the fine prints.

There is just something so striking about the photographs that makes you want look closer. Perhaps it is the strong juxtaposition between the eastern and the western culture?

Or perhaps the dapper gentlemens randomly walking in the air with their umbrellas that seem so completely out of place and time? The fine prints said that these were frame stills from the film, The Spring, by Yang Fudong. Initially I thought it was some new version of Lust Caution, a genre I’ve never been very interested in, and that Prada happened to have sponsored the costumes. I wondered how they incorporated a scene with floating men. As it turns out, this is a short film especially commission by Prada to promote their SS10 Menswear collection. I know, I’m slow.

I watched the 9 minute black/white avant garde film last night on You Tube. I don’t claim to understand the surrealist art references, and indeed had no idea what the plot could’ve been. But I did find the imageries in the film incredibly intriguing. Every scene is picture perfect. It almost reads like a moving series of photographs. Definitely not a boring 9 minutes!

Image Source: the Coolist

FW10: New Basics

22 Monday Feb 2010

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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The FW10 runway for The Row was nothing too striking or anything. But it did have an understated chic about it that was quietly cool and oh-so-Olsens.

It reminds me that I should get my hands on some updated classics like a pair of casual black silk pants (maybe they can be my new jeans?) and a long tuxedo blazer (definitely nothing new, but it looks like it’s not going anywhere anytime soon). I should also maybe give that tshirt under strapless dress look another try. I’ve tried but never really “made it work”, but it looks oh so very mod in the picture. And my, those flat simple gladiator sandals are very very versatile indeed. I should look out for something similar this summer.  

Image Source: Style.com

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