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NYC Again

17 Friday Jul 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Lifestyle, Travel

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I’m off to NYC again. I know, I should really move there with the rate I’m flying there (or find some other place to visit). But what can you do when everything’s there? This time I’m going with HG (girls time!) and we plan to hit Peter Lugers (surely it will not catch on fire again?), Salon de Ning, Spice Market, Lion King, Chelsea, the Met (I know, I should really go see it), Balthazar and hopefully Ruby et Violette!

Oh and I just found out that one can make personalized maps on Google Map (google never ceases to amaze me by their foresight on my needs i.e. the task list). Check out the one I created today on NYC! It’s not comprehensive yet, but I will add and annotate as I go along. Now if only I can print this out and actually be able to tell what each of the icons actually mean. Maybe they should have numbered icons…

A. Wang

16 Thursday Jul 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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In the past few months I’ve heard a lot about Alexander Wang, he is every magazine’s favourite newcomer and he was the CFDA Swarovski Women’s Wear designer of the year.

 A Wang- initial

When I first heard about him, I naturally browsed his runway and his collections online ready to be wow-ed, but sadly I came away unimpressed. His designs either looked very plain (with big holes in the back) or had strange random cut outs about, which I am not sure is very practical nor flattering.

A Wang- Vest

Even on the rack at Barneys it didn’t look too enticing (his drapey designs just don’t hang well). But after hearing all the rage, I figured I should at least give him a chance, and so I picked up the most interesting looking thing on the rack I saw and tried it on. I was super impressed! The hangs just right on your shoulders and the details are amazing. It unexpectedly buttons up assymmetrically. The combination of the wool and silk is done beautifully to fully reflect the boldness of wool and the flirtiness of the silk. I especially love how the silk is impeccably arranged in folds. And you probably don’t see it here, but the silk part at the back actually splits up, but is delicately held together at the bottom with a button. I wore it today with a white tank underneath and skinny jeans and felt distinctively unique- in a very cool rocker chic kind of way. It cleverly combines femininity with the current masculine perfectly.

The description below from his website suddenly makes so much more sense!

“Anyone can get all dressed up and glamorous, but it is how people dress on their off-days that are most intriguing. It is during these in between wayward days when a person’s true style emerges… the girls he dresses stands out, but not in the obvious way, more like the black sheep in a crowdinspiring, surprising and slightly mysterious”

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Genie Genie

10 Friday Jul 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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Has anyone been tempted to get one of these genie/harem pants floating on the racks this season?

Genie- DVF + Alice + Olivia

Because I have. I nearly got these brown DVF genie pants (top left) from Barneys the other weekend. It is a good twist of the regular cropped pants and I’ve always had a soft spot for Aladdin. I figured that the silky material of these pants would also stop me from looking like a hobo. Plus, they’d be very comfortable on the plane. But then after being once subtly and twice not so subtly discouraged against them, I started seeing them differently and realized that there really isn’t much design going on in this DVF Allen pants. In fact, they remind me a little of those horrible gaucho pants from way back then. ugh. The genie pants is no easy trend.

Genie- Sienna Miller + RL

To really get the genie look right, a la Sienna Miller (one of the few celebs I’ve seen to get it right) and the Ralph Lauren runway above here are a few thoughts:

  1. Do not just pick any old genie pants off the rack because they look like genie pants. Pick one with some design and tailoring, like the Alice + Olivia ones (top right). You can see that there are pleats in this one. That makes a huge difference.
  2. Unless you plan to take a page from Princess Jasmine and go barefoot, wear it with cute high sandals. You don’t need to be weighed down anymore than necessary and a pair of heels make everything look nicer 🙂
  3. Pair your genie pants with a structured top like a blazer, a structured cropped jacket or a dress shirt. By structure though, I don’t mean rigid. A casual blazer and a loose dress shirt goes with the harem theme so much more.

Hmm maybe I should give those Alice + Olivia ones a try…….

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Sunny San Diego

08 Wednesday Jul 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Lifestyle, Travel

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Finally, time to catch my breath. Tthe past month has been a blur. I just came back from San Diego for the long weekend. This is my second time there, but I definitely feel like I saw/did much more this time around.

San Diego 1

To begin with, I went kayaking. For the record, my form of exercise includes walking to work everyday and holding shopping bags. So clearly I was out of my element in the wild shores of La Jolla. To top it off, the day wasn’t even nice. It was overcast and COLD. Freezing cold. I couldn’t understand how people were walking around in their bikini’s! I still remember the first cold splash of wave crashing into me just when I got on the kayak. The actual kayaking is much more difficult than it looks in the videos and not half as cool. It is hard to navigate, tiring and naseating. I was seasick within 15 minutes. Our guide was also an environmentalist who made us help her pick up trash from the ocean and leave our shades by the beach (in case we drop it and add more to the pollution). I’m all for saving the environment, but that is not quite my idea of a holiday. The 7 caves themselves (the reason why we had to wear extremely uncool helmuts) were not that impressive. Their definition of a “tour” of it is apparently making a small semi circle into the cave circling the entrance- not quite how I imagined a tour of the cave to be. In the end I was so bad at it that our guide offered to pull us back to shore (I’m guessing she has better things to do than wait for me to struggle my way back). All in all though, it wasn’t a completely bad experience. At least I tried right?

As luck would have it, La Jolla was enclosed underneath this gloomy cloud all weekend (I hypothesized that it’s some erie haunted cloud). My perfectly planned out beach outfit was completely wasted! Though it did have the grace to go away briefly when we went to George’s by the Cove for a July 4th dinner. It was an annual private event on their terrace, where they had a set menu and an excellent view of the fireworks. We somehow stumbled upon it during our research, and I’m glad we did. Because while the food was not superb, the view certainly was. I’ve seen a LOT of fireworks in my life, some much grander than this one, but this one was one of the best experiences. I’ve never seen it so up close before! It was like right above us, like sparks raining down. It was also one of my most memorable 4th of July’s (it may also be because it’s my first in the US). I’ve never experienced so much patriotism than when the table next to me (dressed all in red, white and blue) started bursting out the american anthem.

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Most people say that La Jolla is one of the most beautiful places in San Diego. But I beg to differ. I much prefer Coronado, more specifically the hotel del Coronado. We went there for dinner, but even though the sky was overcast that day and there were lots of teenagers and children running around making it feel like a camp ground, I still loved it. The view and the sand was beautiful. The villas lining the beach were heavenly. And the hotel was like a little village in itself, complete with shops, multiple restaurants, spa facilities and even their own ice cream shop! Obviously I’ve never been to an actual resort before! I imagine myself sitting there at the beach under an umbrella, reading a chick lit, while drinking a strawberry smoothie.

Buffy

But alas, I had to give up that fantasy to go to the San Diego zoo, since I still haven’t been (I forgoed it last time I was here in favor of Six Flags LA). It was quite organized and impressive for a zoo, but I wasn’t too impressed since I didn’t actually see that many animals in action. They were all hiding from the heat. I did however adopted a polar bear from the store, which made the trip all worth it. It’s called Buffy- after Warren Buffet, not the vampire slayer.

Ps. For those of you who are thinking of visiting, besides hotel del Coronado, other worthy hotels in the area include: Grant Hyatt, the Ivy and the Omnihotel.

PPs. I do have a lot of fashion related concerns pent up in me. I just haven’t had time yet to get it out. This week should be a quiet week though, so stay tune!

I saw Mariah Carey…..

02 Thursday Jul 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Random Musings, Travel

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….except I didn’t recognize her. She walked right past me and all I saw was that she was really made up, had gorgeous hair and a really hot body. But her body guards/assistants, the heavy filming equipment and the myriad fans outside made me think that that I should really know who this is. Finally I asked the hotel staff and they clued me in that it was Mariah Carey, filming her latest mv- Obsession. The crazy fans and the extravagant set finally made sense after that.

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Personally I’ve never been a big fan of her’s (I would’ve been more excited spotting the filming of Gossip Girl), but it was a good NYC experience nevertheless. On this trip I also tried Craft Steak and Megu. Craft Steak not that great. The steak were overly seasoned/salty, and the steak itself was very dry. I guess this is what happens when all the cow gets to eat is grass. I loved Megu though. It was just my kind of cooked Japanese food place. If you don’t have anywhere to go to last minute, I recommend Megu Midtown. Located at the Trump Tower next to the UN, there was almost nobody there. Yet the food and the service were both excellent. Love love love.

Other random thoughts……. when my friend told me last Thursday that “MJ is dead” I immediately thought of Marc Jacobs and immediately felt really devastated! But then I realized that my friend cannot possibly know who Marc Jacobs is (or if he did, he wouldn’t call him MJ), I googled it up to find that it was actually Michael Jackson. I feel bad to admit it, but I think I actually felt a little relieved it was Michael and not Marc. Marc still has a long way to go to reach his full potential!

Yay, everyone is leaving early today! I’m off to catch my flight to SD. Happy 4th of July everyone!

J Crew Cover Up Report

26 Friday Jun 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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Update: My conservatism won out and I’ve decided on the cream one. Also, I have a feeling that San Diego may not be as warm as I imagine it to be…… Oh and the yellow thing on the hat are not feathers, it’s a small flower. I know, it’s not the cutest, I would’ve gotten the super big floppy cute ones they had but those are a bit more expensive 😛

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It turns out that the best place to go for cover ups this summer is J Crew- especially now that they’re on their final sale.

cover up- jcrew

I went in expecting everything to be short sleeved or the wrong size, but it turns out that there were many selections that fit my criteria. They were cheap too at $20 each- even more so than the perfect one from American Eagle (and I daresay these are of better quality). The sale was so good that I decided to throw in a straw hat. How cute is that hat? It’s only $10 and it completely makes the outfit. In fact, it did such a good job making the outfit that now I’m stuck between the sophisticated cream shirtdress that just touches my knee, or the youthful and pretty pink tunic that just covers my butt. The cream one is more sophisticated and conservative (cause it’s longer) and it would probably match my white with gold stripes bikini more. But then the pink one is more youthful and cute, and you’re only young once, right? Thoughts?

On a side note, J Crew also has a bunch of tissue boyfriend v neck tees on sale for $20. They feel so divine and hangs just right!

Ps. The photos above does not do justice to the cover ups. So try to imagine them worn!

Cover Up!

24 Wednesday Jun 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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I’m going to San Diego next weekend! After all the rain and cold recently (yes, even in June!), I can’t wait to get away to sunny, beachy San Diego and I’m not even a beach person! In fact the last time I went to a beach was probably last March in New Zealand and the last time I actually swam in the sea would be… never. I can’t even remember the last time I swam in a pool….  I wonder if I still remember how to swim. Regardless though, this time I need to be beach ready because we’re planning to go on a kayaking trip to explore the caves and my friend is trying to convince me to paddle surf (whatever that means). I’ve already got a swim suit and flip flops (Old Navy has really cute stripey flip flops for $5 btw), but what I really need now is a beach cover up: a) because I’m conservative and b) because tanning is not my thing.

cover up- 4

Initially I considered getting something sheer and fun like these beachy dresses above from J Crew and Victoria’s Secret. I even went to J Crew and tried on that dress. But then I realized that it would totally defeat the purpose of point b) and then what would be the point? I’d probably even get a weird tan line!

cover up- 2

So I continued to search. I went to H&M, Old Navy and even Filene’s Basement (considering that I go to the beach exactly once a year, I really don’t want to be spending too much on it!) but came out each time with nothing. Has no designer ever considered that some girls might just want a simple, long sleeved sheer beach cover up instead of sleeveless maxi dresses? I was pretty sure I’ve seen them around in abundance when I was not looking for one. Finally I came across the PERFECT beach cover up at American Eagle. It is white, it is sheer, it is simple, long sleeved, at just the right length with the perfect amount of subtle feminine detail at the neckline. It is machine washable. It is at the right price point. It is exactly what I’ve been looking for! But alas, as with all things perfect-  they are already sold out.

cover up- 3

Rendered back to the drawing board, I decided to maybe widen my idea of perfect a bit and came across the above beach cover ups. I like the idea of a simple long sheer dress shirt. It’s as if someone just casually threw it on! And I am also loving the J Crew tunic cover ups (bottom two)- especially the white one. The sleeves are not quite the right length (ew..tshirt tan!) but maybe I can deal with it? I will try them out tomorrow.  Hopefully they will be available at the store. Fingers crossed!

cover up- 5

During my search I was also very surprised to find that Victoria’s Secret has one of the best cover up collections around! I actually rather like the sheer deep v neck long sleeve dresses above (top two), they’re really feminine and pretty! But then, I realized that they might look a little too night dress-ish for the beach and that I don’t have the assets to carry off such a deep v dress anyway. If you do have the assets however, do consider them!

Image Source: Victoria’s Secret, American Eagle and J Crew

CFDA Fashion 2009

17 Wednesday Jun 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Fashion

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The fashion at the CFDA this year for me defined the current red carpet trend. Goodbye long flowy elegant gowns and hello body hugging fashion forward cocktail dresses with trendy booties/platforms.

CFDA Awards 1

Diane Kruger in Jason Wu, Dree Hemmingway in Alexander Wang (who got the Swarovski Award for women’s wear) and Kirsten in Rodarte (womenswear designer of the year!) were the epitome of this move (left to right). At first my aesthetics rejected these body hugging creations as too Jetson’s like and inelegant, but the longer I stare at them, the more they are growing on me. There is something very refreshing but still very flattering about these dresses. I especially liked Dree’s Alexander Wang creation. And who knew he was such a cutie? Oh and I need to get some crazy platform booties like the ones Diane and Kirsten are wearing!

CFDA Awards 2

Lydia Hearst (left) looks a bit anorexic here, but I love how she paired this whimsical Marc Bouwer dress with those rockin’ Louboutins. It instantly jazzes up the look. The hot pink color of Blake Lively’s Michael Kor dress (right) more than makes up for it’s simplicity in design. In fact, anymore detail and it would look Betsey Johnson like. Instead, paired with those to die for nude pumps (I’m almost sure they’re Louboutins) she looks elegant and youthful.

CFDA Awards 3

I thought Anna Wintour (left) adapted herself perfectly for this move. Her Carolina Herrera dress fits the silohuette but is still elegant, demure and appropriate for her age (Come on, she would not look good in that Alexander Wang dress). I’m not sure how that Zac Posen dress Doutzen Kroes (right) is wearing looks still, but I love the effect in motion. It looks fun and flirty!

Oh and congrats to all the CFDA winners!

Image Source: Style.com

Merry go Round

16 Tuesday Jun 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Blogging, Fashion

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Update: *sniff* I am so upset. I threw my shades into my bag the other day (usually nothing happens to it) and discovered a SCRATCH on the right lens the next day. It’s not a small scratch either, it is a significant scratch that actually blocks my vision because it’s smack in the middle!!!! *sniff* I wonder if the good people over at the optical shop can perform some kind of magic and somehow fix it….

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It’s amazing how inspiration and mood works. When I should be focused on studying/cramming, blogging inspiration comes flooding in. But when I have nothing better to do in the world but to watch mindless TV (not that there are any good shows left still showing) and escape into a good book, my mind draws blank. Clearly from my lack of posts recently, I’m going through one of those times.

Odd Shaped Shades- Chanel

I did come across another fun  article yesterday about round shades this summer though. It tries to investigate from where this trend had stemmed from, coming up with explanations from John Lennon to hippies. I thought the author tried a little bit too hard to explain the sometimes inexplicable, but there were some interesting thoughts (almost as interesting as the correlation between the economy and the hem line). The one big thing I took away from the article though was, “yay! my round Chanel shades from last year are still it!”

Blogged Out?

11 Thursday Jun 2009

Posted by Barneys Girl in Blogging, Random Musings

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Today I came across a sobering article in the NYTimes about the decline of blogs. It was actually quite refreshing since this is the first article I’ve read from this angle. Ever since I started blogging 5 years ago, the hype of blogging had just grown exponentially, but I guess like the economy, it grew out of proportion and now the blog bubble is deflating too. The article suggested that many people started blogs with lofty aspirations — to build an audience and leave their day job, to land a book deal, or simply to share their genius with the world, but then were eventually disappointed or lost interest and decided to stop. It cited examples of the regular mom, Mrs. Nichols, trying to make it without success, and successful bloggers like Cromulent/Salad Days, who temporarily quit from the lack of privacy and fashion blogger, Fashion Robot, who just had enough. My first reaction was to commiserate with Fashion Robot- I’m not alone! My second thought was that a decline sounds right. I don’t know about the rest of the blogosphere, but for me the fashion blogosphere grew so fast in the past few years that I’ve lost track a long time ago. I know that it should be the more the merrier, but a reader only has so much time in a day and they must use it wisely- the exponential growth was unsustainable.

The problem is that people started blogging for the wrong reasons. As with every job, only the fittest survive. You cannot expect to register for a blog, randomly write something and expect instant readership/revenue and an upcoming book deal. You must have something to offer to readers, network in the blogosphere and be consistent and constantly refreshing to build a readership. Trust me, it is no easy task. The most successful bloggers are those who are most passionate about what they write.If you get into blogging with the mindset to simply share your thoughts with other like-minded people rather than notoriety and cash, you’ll have a much better time of it.

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